I don't think it's the case that people don't understand that charging strategies affect battery wear; the question is how much the effect will be and much you should care.This is a key fact that most people have a hard time understanding about Lithium based batteries.
By the time my Bolt hits 100,000 miles (which will likely take more than ten years), it will be at the equivalent of fewer than 500 cycles. At almost two years old, it's had the equivalent of about 60 cycles so far. At 500 cycles, differences between strategies are likely to be barely starting to show.
Worrying about making sure my Bolt's battery will be at 20% degraded at 5000 cycles rather than 35% degraded is ridiculous to me — it's never going to see 1 million miles.