Huh. So you're saying it's more likely that I'll die because of an electrical issue with my EVSE than because of a fire issue with my Bolt?"an electrician will always take a conservative approach" I'd hope they take the NEC and local building code approach. The codes are there in most cases because of deaths. It's like hearing people who smoke or text will driving. "hasn't killed me .....YET"
I work with electricity and have for 40 years. I've seen some crazy people doing crazy stuff. (and it didn't kill them...yet)
Every year about 400 people get electrocuted and 4000 injured. 5300 fires caused by outlets.
Don't be one and don't let someone you love use those adapters.
Just buy the correct device.