yes - all of that can be controlled by playing around with "settings" in the main touch screen - recommend you go out to the car when you have some time and drill around in all the settings panels and get the car just the way. you like - there is an amazing amount of customization and the only way to find it is:
1. read the manual
2. sit down and just Start tapping the main screen and see what you can screw with.
I’ve read through the entire manual front to back at least once since getting my Bolt. However, I have no memory for all the details, so kudos for asking these questions! I (re)learn something about this car just about every time I visit this forum.
Regarding turning off auto door unlock, indeed there is a setting under Settings -> Vehicle -> (5) Power Door Locks. The options are Off, All Doors (the default) and Driver Door.