The Tesla owner is a fool, hope that isn't too harsh when applied to your friend / relative but it is a fact. The owners manual says "don't trust the technology, you are in control of the car" every driver assistance feature you turn on is listed as "BETA" on the controls screen. If you get in an accident Tesla (via their lawyers) says "you were in control of the car, the accident is your fault" Also, the instructions for Auto Pilot and TACC (Traffic Aware Cruise Control) say that they are only for use on freeways and highways, not for use on curvy roads or city streets.
Simply put, the owner of the Tesla risked your lives on BETA technology that is not meant for use on curvy roads while driving on roads with hairpin turns in the mountains.
The technology works pretty good on limited access highways, but the vision only Auto Pilot (they deleted the radar in newer Model 3 and Model Y) sucks on rural highways. In those situations it goes from a 15 year old with a learners permit with no instructions, to a nervous 15 year old with a learners permit and an angry father in the passenger seat that keeps yelling at him. At night on rural highways it acts like a terrified 8 year old behind the wheel with no adult supervision.
Keith
PS: Full Self Drive (Beta, Beta) when complete will be a "high functioning" level 2 autonomous system. No way in heII will they reach Level 4, let alone Level 5 with the current hardware.
PPS: I call FSD "Beta, Beta" because REGULAR FSD is a Beta system... what they are calling FSD Beta is actually an Alpha system that they are testing on public roads.