I could've moved to a "well-to-do suburb." But I decided I'd rather retire on time. Driving a car I bought new is my one major indulgence.
My family of 3 at the time, moved into a wealthy neighborhood with 5 bedrooms in 2019. We're working on being a family of 5, so the extra bedrooms and bathrooms are beginning to be very useful. The house appreciated $250,000 since purchasing it, I refied the 95% LTV loan into a new 2.5% 30 year, and the appreciated value meant I no longer had to pay the extra loan insurance.
Low-interest, fixed rate, tax deductible debt is a hedge against inflation. That's why I bought the most house lenders were willing to back. If somehow both of us lost jobs, renting out rooms would cover the mortgage cost.
I don't want to retire, I want to work for myself, which basically requires the same financial security.
As an aside, most everyone in the neighborhood drives inexpensive vehicles. Pontiacs, Honda and Toyota crossovers, half-ton older pickups, Chevy Bolts... my most expensive vehicle is a 2006 Acura TSX.
Oregon culture never valued vanity as highly as places like LA or NY. You can tell because we dress more frumpy too. Everyone in NY looks great, while everyone in Oregon looks like they just got back from living in the woods a few weeks.